OK, so is it just me or are there too many words that are spelled differently but sound exactly the same?What are they called? Oh, yes, homonyms or homophones. I wish I could time travel back to when the English language was being devised and convince who ever decided that it was a good idea to use different spellings for words that sound the same, that in fact it was not such a hot idea because all it would do is confuse me!

Let me explain why I have decided to rant about this subject today. I wrote an earlier blog and my mother was reading it and realized that I had inadvertently used the incorrect spelling of the word "tail." I was trying to say that something was on someone's "tail" and instead said that something was on someone's "tale." OK so maybe the tale should have been told about the tail but I digress.

I know growing up, I always had trouble with some other words that sounded the same but were spelled differently. For example: where and were, since and sense, to, too and two, loose and lose, tail and tale (obviously!), their and there, sea and see, bow and bough, and lead and led. I could go on and on but I have a feeling you catch my drift!

Why do we have to have difficulty when it comes to talking and writing? Couldn't they have just used the same spelling and given us a way to tell the difference when we spoke or wrote something down? That way when I typed my daily blog I would have have to listen to my Mom heckle me about having used the incorrect version of a specific word. Now my Mom would argue that she enjoys heckling me just so she can say she has done her daily harassment and has accomplished her job!

There are many more complaints I could make about the English language but it would probably not serve any more purpose than this one did. I don't think that anyone in control (I am not really sure who that would be anyway) would be willing to listen to a stay at home wife complain about what she doesn't like about certain words that are a bane to her blog and really be willing to do anything about it even if they could!

Oh well, if nothing else, maybe this allowed you to smile just a little while sitting at your computer trying not to work too hard! So just remember when you go to use one of the words that sound exactly the same but are spelled differently that you are not alone in your own hatred of these words!

Maybe one of these days I will start a petition to get these words cut out of the English language. What do you think? Think this would work? No? Probably not!

Oh, well I guess I will keep writing and confusing these words and my Mom will keep heckling me! If it gives her something to do then I have done my job! Right?! 

"Hear" is my tip for the day: A Hug A Day Will Keep The Blues Away!
(Did you notice that I gave my Mom another reason to heckle me? "Here and Hear" Another one of those silly homophones!)
Love you Mom!


 
People come and go through your life and sometimes they become great friends, some become family and others move on. Life is not always simple but the people you surround yourself with are the people that you become like and you emulate whether you want to or not.
I have not always been the person that I am now. No one starts out as the person they become because we all have to evolve and over come obstacles in our lives. I consider myself to be a good person. I am fun to be around or so I am told. I love people and I enjoy others company. I like to give more than to receive and I live to make others around me happy.
I have come a long way from where I was 10 years ago. I am not even sure I would have liked me then if I had met myself now. But like I said we all evolve and overcome.
I have finally learned to like myself in the past couple of years. I honestly think that is where a person must start to learn how to become the person he/she wants to be. It has not been easy to learn to like myself. I have never been as confident or as outgoing as I think now that I should have been. But I know now that it doesn't take beauty or smarts or money to make you who you are. It takes love of life and being happy where you are and with what you have.
When I was growing up my parents insisted that my sister and I were at church twice on Sunday and once on Wednesday night. Although I rebelled and did not think that this was very important at the time I feel like I finally know and understand why my parents wanted my sister and I at church every week. It wasn't just to learn the "Golden Rule" or to learn about all of the books of the Bible or to hear sermons about Jesus walking on Water, although these are very important lessons, it was the influences of the people that we went to church with. It was the teachers, the elders, the deacons, the preacher, and all of the Godly people that helped to guide us. And, now, looking back it was not a lesson that was taught in a classroom or from a pulpit it was just watching the way the members of our church treated each other and how they lived their lives. I know now that all of the people that I came into contact with while I was growing up in the church have had definite impacts on how I now want to live my life and how I want to treat others.
I may never become the President of the United States or a multimillionaire but I know that I will leave a mark on someone's life because of the lessons I have learned and because of the obstacles I have overcome. I know God has a plan for me and I am now on a mission to do whatever he has planned. Someone once told me that when you tell God your plans He laughs because He has your true plan and you must listen and follow him in order to find the path He wants you to take.
So I have started on a journey to find the path that God wants me to follow and I hope to share my lessons and my obstacles with you and I pray that my journey might help you. Whether through inspiration or just a good laugh I hope you will join me and see where my path leads.

 
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